#2 Husband | Gratitude Journal 🌠

Salam lovelies.

You're the answer to my prayer 💙

I'm not sure how to start this post and how this post gonna be.

I've met my husband, (I called him B in this blog) around 5 years ago.

I don't exactly remember the first time we met. Both of us don't remember. 😂 So we didn't take it to heart. But what I do remember was his question to me, "apa eh nama?" when it was not even the first time we met! That's a big turn off for me at that time. 😂 How could you? You don't even know my name? We've met a few times already! That's when I assumed he didn't have any interest in me.

A few meets up after that, I felt something strange. I felt like he's interested with me. But I tried to shove off the feelings and try to huznuzon that he just wanted to be friend. 😂 All my other friends were telling me that he's interested with me. I ignore them. 😂

He doesn't give up. We almost lost contact after I lightly rejected him during my LLB convocation which he insisted to come. 

Long story short, he wish my birthday last year, (he never actually missed my birthday since the first time he knew, I don't even know how he knew my birthday. Such a stalker 😂) and the rest is history.

Dear B, I'm sorry I didn't post much about you in my social medias. It just cringed me when others are posting about their partner, I just don't want other people to feel like that to when I'm posting about you. 

I love how you effort is always more than 100% and you never stop until now. You always try your best and I always feel love everyday. 

Thank you Allah for giving my own Imam so that I can pray Jamaah everyday.

B is definitely someone I prayed for. In 2015, I listed around 30+ criteria that I want my future husband to have. Alhamdulillah he ticked almost all of them! 

💡 Quick Tips To Find Your Life Partner

1. List all the criteria that you want in your life partner. Be very specific!

2. Just randomly choose a specific year, month or date for your solemnization day. I even write and tell everyone I wanted to get marry in 2017. 

3. Let go of your past relationship. Make sure you already 200% move on!

4. Be greatfull with every relationship that you have now. Family, friends, relatives and work.

5. Be prepared. Read and learn more about marriage, relationships and parenting. Marriage is more than just a fairy tales and more than just a love itself. It comes with responsibility.

6. Be ready and feel ready. Tell Allah that you are ready. Make a lots of Doa. Ask Allah what's the best for you. Pray Solat Hajat.

7. Visualize your happy day.

8. Love yourself first and foremost. Nobody can fill in the empty vessel, you need to fill in the vessel first. The right one will come to you and support you and make you grow more.

I honestly have so many things to say about B but I keep it for later. 💙

May our marriage last till Jannah. I love you, B! 🌸